A perforated eardrum isn’t something you plan for. One moment you’re swimming, the next you’re wincing from sharp pain. Or maybe you had a bad cold, and your ear started draining. Suddenly, your hearing feels muffled, like you’re underwater. It’s scary, but it’s also more common than you think. The good news? Most perforated eardrums heal on their own - if you give them the right conditions. The bad news? Mess up the recovery, and you could end up with lasting hearing loss, chronic infections, or even surgery. This isn’t just about waiting it out. It’s about knowing when to protect your ear, how to protect it, and what to watch for.
How Long Does a Perforated Eardrum Take to Heal?
There’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Healing time depends on the size of the hole, how it happened, and whether you’re doing everything right. A small tear from a minor pressure change - like popping your ears during a flight - might close up in just three weeks. A larger tear from an infection or a cotton swab pushed too far? That could take two months or more.
Here’s what the timeline usually looks like, based on clinical data from Stanford Health Care and Harvard Health:
- Days 1-3: Pain peaks, then starts to fade. If you’re still in serious pain after three days, you might have an infection.
- Week 2-3: New tissue begins forming over the tear. You’ll notice less pain and maybe a slight improvement in hearing.
- Week 4-6: The eardrum strengthens. Hearing gets clearer. Pressure in the ear starts to normalize.
- Week 6-8: Most small to medium perforations are fully healed. Your ear should feel normal again.
But here’s the catch: if you’re exposing your ear to water, blowing your nose hard, or flying during this time, healing slows down - or stops. A study from Mount Sinai Medical Center found that patients who followed protection rules had a 75% higher chance of healing without surgery. That’s not luck. That’s discipline.
What Causes a Perforated Eardrum?
You can’t protect what you don’t understand. A ruptured eardrum isn’t just from poking your ear with a Q-tip. Here are the real culprits:
- Ear infections (otitis media): Fluid builds up behind the eardrum until it bursts. This is the most common cause in kids, but adults get it too.
- Pressure changes (barotrauma): Flying, scuba diving, or even a loud sneeze can create sudden pressure that pops the membrane.
- Loud noises (acoustic trauma): Explosions, gunshots, or even a speaker blasting at point-blank range can tear the eardrum.
- Physical trauma: Cotton swabs, hairpins, or even a slap to the ear can cause a tear.
- Foreign objects: Kids are especially prone to inserting small toys or beads into their ears.
Each cause affects healing differently. An infection-related tear takes longer because the tissue is already inflamed. A clean tear from a loud noise might heal faster - if you keep the ear dry.
How to Protect Your Ear While It Heals
Healing isn’t passive. It’s active protection. You’re not just avoiding pain - you’re preventing infection, pressure damage, and permanent hearing loss.
Keep it dry - no exceptions. Water is the enemy. It carries bacteria into the middle ear, turning a simple tear into a chronic infection. Mayo Clinic and MyHealth Alberta both say: no swimming, no showers without protection, and definitely no diving.
Here’s how to shower safely:
- Use a waterproof silicone earplug - not cotton balls. They don’t hold up.
- If you can’t get a plug, pack a cotton ball with petroleum jelly and gently place it at the ear opening. Change it after every shower.
- Bathing is safer than showering. Sit in the tub, keep your head tilted away from the water.
Don’t blow your nose. Blowing forces air through the Eustachian tube and into the middle ear. That pressure can rip the healing tissue. Instead, gently wipe your nose or use saline sprays.
Avoid flying and scuba diving. Even if you feel fine, pressure changes during takeoff and landing can delay healing. Wait at least six to eight weeks, and only after your doctor confirms the eardrum is sealed.
Never stick anything in your ear. No cotton swabs, no ear picks, no tweezers. Even if it itches, let it be. Your body is rebuilding tissue - don’t interfere.
Use only prescribed ear drops. Over-the-counter drops can contain alcohol or hydrogen peroxide - both of which damage healing tissue. If your doctor gives you drops, use them exactly as directed.
When Do You Need Medical Help?
Most perforated eardrums heal without surgery. But you’re not out of the woods just because the pain went away. Watch for these red flags:
- Pain lasting more than three days
- Drainage - especially if it’s yellow, green, or bloody
- Fever or dizziness
- Hearing doesn’t improve after two weeks
- Symptoms return after seeming to get better
If any of these happen, see a doctor. An infection can spread to the mastoid bone behind the ear - a condition called mastoiditis. It’s rare, but serious. According to Mount Sinai, untreated infections lead to chronic drainage in 5-10% of cases.
Doctors will check your ear with an otoscope and may order a hearing test. If the hole hasn’t started closing after three to four weeks, they’ll likely refer you to an ENT specialist. Don’t wait. Delaying care increases the chance you’ll need surgery.
Treatment Options: When Healing Doesn’t Happen
Most perforations heal on their own - about 85% of them. But if it doesn’t, there are two main procedures:
- Myringoplasty: For smaller holes. The doctor applies a patch - sometimes made of paper, gel, or even your own fat - over the tear. It’s quick (10-30 minutes), done under local anesthesia, and has a success rate of 85-90% with modern materials like hyaluronic acid and platelet-rich plasma.
- Tympanoplasty: For larger or long-standing perforations. The surgeon takes a small piece of tissue from your own body (often from behind the ear) and grafts it onto the eardrum. Takes 30-120 minutes, usually under general anesthesia.
Both procedures are outpatient. Recovery takes a few weeks, and you’ll still need to keep your ear dry. But the payoff? Restored hearing and a much lower risk of future infections.
One key thing: if you’ve had a perforation before and it healed, you’re more likely to have another one. Your eardrum tissue may be weaker. That’s why protection isn’t just for now - it’s a habit.
What Happens If You Don’t Protect Your Ear?
Ignoring the rules isn’t just risky - it’s costly. Here’s what can go wrong:
- Chronic ear infection: Bacteria keep coming back. You’ll have recurring drainage, odor, and discomfort. This happens in 5-10% of cases when water exposure isn’t controlled.
- Persistent hearing loss: Even after the eardrum heals, scar tissue can form, making it less flexible. This causes permanent conductive hearing loss in 3-5% of cases.
- Vertigo and dizziness: If the inner ear gets damaged, you might feel off-balance for weeks or months. This affects 2-3% of cases.
- Mastoiditis: The infection spreads to the bone behind the ear. Requires hospitalization and IV antibiotics. Happens in 1-2% of untreated cases.
These aren’t theoretical risks. They’re documented outcomes from Mount Sinai and Cleveland Clinic. And they’re preventable.
What to Expect After Healing
Once your eardrum is fully healed, you can return to normal life - but not all at once. Your doctor will likely schedule a follow-up appointment to confirm closure. Only then should you:
- Go back to swimming
- Fly on a plane
- Use earbuds or headphones normally
- Stop using ear protection in the shower
Even after healing, be gentle. Avoid loud music, especially with earbuds pressed tightly into your ear. And if you’ve had one rupture, you’re at higher risk for another. Treat your ears like delicate tools - not things you can ignore.
Most people recover completely. Hearing returns to normal. No scarring. No issues. But that only happens if you do the work. It’s not about being careful - it’s about being smart.
Can a perforated eardrum heal on its own?
Yes, most perforated eardrums heal on their own - especially small ones. Around 85% of cases close without surgery within 6 to 8 weeks. Healing depends on the size of the tear, whether there’s an infection, and whether you protect the ear from water and pressure. Larger holes or those caused by chronic infection may need medical intervention.
How long should I keep my ear dry after a perforation?
Keep your ear completely dry for at least 6 to 8 weeks - or until your doctor confirms healing. Even after pain fades, the tissue underneath is still fragile. Water exposure can cause infection and delay healing. Use waterproof earplugs or cotton balls with petroleum jelly when showering, and avoid swimming entirely until cleared by a professional.
Is it safe to fly with a perforated eardrum?
No, flying is not safe until the eardrum is fully healed. Pressure changes during takeoff and landing can damage the healing tissue, reopen the tear, or cause severe pain. Wait at least 6-8 weeks and get confirmation from your doctor before flying. If you must fly earlier, ask about ear pressure equalization techniques - but only under medical guidance.
What should I do if my ear starts draining?
Drainage - especially if it’s yellow, green, or bloody - is a sign of infection. Contact your doctor immediately. Don’t try to clean it out yourself. You may need antibiotic ear drops or oral antibiotics. Left untreated, infection can spread to the bone behind the ear or cause permanent hearing damage.
Can I use over-the-counter painkillers for a ruptured eardrum?
Yes, over-the-counter pain relievers like acetaminophen or ibuprofen are safe and effective for managing discomfort. But they don’t treat the underlying issue. If pain lasts more than 3 days, or if you develop fever, drainage, or dizziness, see a doctor. Pain relief is temporary - protection and medical follow-up are what matter for healing.